Reaching Friends In a Crowded Twitter Room
1 Thursday, October 9th, 2008Deconstructing Personal Twitter Feeds to Help Communication
Without being privy to formal Twitter usability studies, I’d wager most people rarely browse their tweet timeline beyond the first page. For those of us who follow hundreds and thousands of tweeters, we miss the vast majority of tweets in our network. It also means that only the most frequent tweeters have a chance of being heard by their followers.
How to hear your friends on Twitter
When I’m in a consumer mode, I often click on individual tweeters to read their last series of posts. I gravitate toward different people depending on what mood/topic I’m interested in at the time.
My friend who is new to Twitter asks, “How can I push my friend’s tweets to me?” Easy. Scroll to the bottom of a profile and subscribe to the RSS feed. You will see their tweets in your reader.
You may have select tweeters of whom you’d like to read everything they say, so subscribe to their RSS feeds. Note, when someone deletes a tweet from their timeline, it still appears in their RSS feed like Google Reader or Facebook. People in this category might include:
- News feeds
- Family & close friends
- Thought leaders, trend watchers
- Twitter HR: Coworkers, staff, employees, applicants
- Prospective tenants
- Online reputation management
- Legal forensics
- Private accounts for project collaboration
- Companies, products, sports teams, celebrities
- Others? Leave a comment below!
How to be heard by your friends on Twitter
Use @name replies so tweets about them will show up in their Replies list. I’ve found people tend to favorite these tweets more often (I do too) and people are more apt to reply back. Be sure to put the @reply at the beginning of your tweet, otherwise it will not appear in their Replies list (Twitter should fix this).
I also direct message (DM) people with increasing frequency. By default, Twitter sends them an email to their preferred email account and it lands in their Direct Messages queue. Good uses for @replies and DMs are:
- Expressing appreciation for new follows
- Conventions, tweet-ups
- To make an introduction
- Apply for jobs w/ Twitter-savvy recruiters like @kimhaynes
- Ping a friend’s mobile device (also use the Nudge feature)
- Quick & pithy emails
- Top of mind awareness
- Lead generation
Is this helpful? Please talk back with a comment or tweet me with an @reply or DM ![]()
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